5 Questions Successful People Ask Themselves Every Morning
The Zen Master Suzuki Roshi said, “In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities, but in the expert’s there are few.”
He was teaching on the concept of shoshin, which means beginner’s mind. The most successful people I know practice shoshin, whether they know it or not.
Over the years, I’ve taken rich dad’s lessons to heart and tried my best to always ask questions so that I can learn, grow, and push myself to become more successful. I don’t take where I am in life for granted and I do not think I have all the answers.
This is why even though I write books, blogs, speak to seminar attendees I still go to many seminars, read many books, and pay attention to the news. I always have something to learn, and the world is full of teachers.
My rich dad said, “The most successful people in life are the ones who continually ask questions. They’re always learning. They’re always growing. They’re always pushing.”
Conversely, rich dad said, “The losers in life think they already have all the answers. They can’t learn because they’re too busy telling everyone what they know. They can’t grow because they’re too busy telling everyone else what they need to do. They can’t push because they think they’ve already arrived.”
In my opinion, one of the greatest assets that successful people have is that they think differently than everyone else. This is because if you think like everyone else does, then you’ll have what everyone else has. And for most people, what they have is years of hard work, unfair taxes, and a lifetime of debt.
Successful People Have a Beginner’s Mind
Over the years, I’ve learned that there are five questions in particular that the most successful people ask themselves every morning. These are foundational questions that lead to all the other important questions we ask.
You may recognize them, but I’m guessing you may not have asked them for a while — at least not deliberately. But the key to success is approaching the answers to these questions (and life) with a beginner’s mind each day.
#1 Who am I?
The ancient Greeks were a wise bunch. They produced the likes of Socrates and Plato, who’ve shaped philosophy for thousands of years. One of their maxims was simply, “Know thyself.”
Before you can be successful in life, you have to know who you are. Because as you become successful, many people will want you to become something you’re not. As the demands of life grow, if you’re not careful, your freedom declines.
I learned this early in life when I had to choose between what I wanted and what my poor dad wanted for me. My poor dad (my natural dad), valued education and a secure job that paid well. I knew I wanted more than that. I wanted to be rich. And I knew that I needed to learn how to invest and build businesses in order to achieve what I wanted in life.
My poor dad wanted me to take a high-paying job as a pilot or with the Merchant Marines. Instead, I took a job selling Xerox so I could learn how to be a top salesperson. I knew that foundation would help me achieve who I wanted to be. If I’d followed my poor dad’s advice and desires, I would not be where I am today.
Always be asking, “Who am I?” and stay true to yourself, not others’ expectations.
#2 What do I love?
There’s an old maxim that says, “Write what you know.” My problem with this has been what if I don’t love what I know? Things will get boring pretty fast.
Rather than stick with what you know, discover what you love in life and pursue it with passion. By pursuing the things you love, all the other things in life will fall into order.
What you love will also define success for you. For some, family is success. For others, it’s a thriving business. By understanding what you love, you can adjust your priorities accordingly and achieve your definition of success.
The other thing to remember is that what you love changes over time, just as who we are does too. The reason you need to ask yourself these questions every day is because one day the answer might be different. And that’s ok. In your early life, it might be your career and growing your wealth that you love. Later in life, it might be starting a family or being heavily involved in philanthropy. Failing to ask “What do I love?” Every day means we fail to recognize when it’s time to move to something new.
#3 Where can I grow?
Successful people are never content to stick with the status quo. Rather, they push themselves to grow. What areas of financial education can you grow in? How can you become a better partner in business and in life? How’s your health? Are you exercising and dieting? What are your financial goals for the next year? How can you achieve them?
Questions like these lead to establishing goals that push you past your comfort zone, allow you to grow, and help you become successful.
Going back to my story earlier about working at Xerox, when I first started as a salesperson I was horrible. I was in last place each month. But I knew from talking with my rich dad that it was going to be key to learn how to sell if I wanted to be rich. So I approached each day with a mindset to grow. By the time I left Xerox, I was the top salesperson on my team. They begged me to stay, but I had learned what I needed and it was time to find somewhere else to grow.
#4 When should I act?
We should always be moving forward with our goals and financial education, but prudent people also plan, and they do so with the help of advisors. As the old proverb goes, “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisors, they succeed.”
Each year, Kim and I sit down and plan out our financial goals for the upcoming year. We then plan out the steps and timelines for those goals to break them down into measurable steps for success, and finally, we meet with our advisors to get their feedback and wisdom.
One story I’ve shared before is my Porsche fund. I wanted a new Porsche, and though I had the money to buy one outright, I instead developed a plan to buy assets that would provide cash flow to cover the cost of the new car. I worked closely with my advisors to establish this plan, and knew it would take about a year. Patiently, I executed each part of the plan, and in about a year, I had both a new cash flowing asset and a new Porsche. It took patience and knowing when to act, but the delayed gratification was worth the effort.
#5 Why am I doing this?
Of all the questions listed here, “why” might be the most important. When I was in school, teachers hated the “why” question. Often this is because they didn’t have an answer. They were so busy telling us what to do that they rarely understood why. Such is the power of entrenched systems of thought.
The most successful people are mavericks who aren’t afraid to ask why, especially when everyone thinks it’s obvious.
I love this story of Steve Jobs told by Bill Lee:
Jobs is supposedly obsessed with every detail that goes into Apple devices. Not so. He focuses on the details relevant to the customer’s experience. When one of Apple’s design teams was tasked with developing a DVD-burning software program for high-end Macs, developers spent weeks putting together a plan. On the appointed day to present it to Jobs, they brought pages filled with prototype information, pictures of the new program’s various windows and menu options, along with documentation showing how the application would work. When Jobs walked into the meeting, he didn’t so much as look at any of the plans. He picked up a marker, went to a whiteboard, and drew a rectangle, representing the application. He then told them what he wanted the new application to do. The user would drag the video into the window, a button would appear that said “burn,” and the user would click it. “That’s it, that’s what we’re going to make,” he said.
While Apple’s developers were consumed with what they were doing (building DVD-burning software), Jobs was concerned with why they were doing it (to make life easy for the customer). One way of thought leads to a product, the other leads to a fortune.
Successful people cut through the clutter and details of life to see clearly why they are doing something or why something should be done.
Play it smart,
Editor, Rich Dad Poor Dad Daily